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The heart is for human kind

lose yourself to find yourself

You need to lose yourself to find yourself. This is how you will know who you really are. Dare to do something unusual or out of common. In that sense you will know whether you like it or not. So many times we look at things from far or from an eye bird view. So many thing seem to be difficult from outside then when we try it, we can see that it wasn’t that hard. It goes the other way round as well. When I am saying that I am referring to something new that may be good for you. I am not referring to stuffs that can be detrimental to your life. I am sure that you get what I mean.


Nonetheless, it is always good to try something new. It can be in terms of clothing, eating habits or lifestyle. So many times I told to myself stuffs like:

“Oh my god! I can’t do this! This is madness!”


However, at the end of the day when I am done with it, I am like did I really do that? I went to a talk show last week that was really interesting. The speaker asked for two people from the audience to come and join him on the stage. Most of us in the audience were like we are not going to go there. I guess the reason was because we were scared or we did not want to get into exposure as well as out of our comfort zone. After few minutes though, there were two people from the audience who stood up and join him on stage. What the presentation did next was absolutely brilliant. He asked them both their names and then gave them each one hundred dollars. He did that just to show that we need to be more daring. Maybe the best moment of our life is from this small step that we do not want to take. Then after a while he asked for two more people to join him on stage and a lot of people were willing to do so. However at that point he said he was just joking.

So the thing here is that we need to step out of our comfort zone and do something different at least once a day. You never know! You may like it. Just be optimistic people!


I remember the time when I started university, I was kind of shy and uncomfortable and I did not have many friends. I was like that for around two weeks. However, I decided to step up. I knew where the student’s meet up the most was the school cafeteria. So I decided to go there at peak hour and do something unusual. I just went through most of the tables, greeted everybody and chatted with them a bit. It may sound crazy to you but this is how I started getting a lot of friends. I have built a lot of great relationships through that way. When I think about it again now, I ask myself how did I do that?


Here I am just sharing my own experience. For me I did it because I wanted to have some new friends. But you can try it in other context as well. It might work very well for you. Maybe, you can try it at your workplace by trying to propose new ideas and new ways of doing things. It is up to you to decide. No matter what you decide to do just make sure that you will not have any regrets or second thought about it. You may win everything and lose nothing at all through this way.


I hope that these few lines will be helpful to you one day. If you have some ideas about how can I improve this technique, you can still share it to me. I am open to answer your questions as well if you have any. Let’s be optimistic. Lets hope for the best instead of thinking what can happen in the other way round. You can leave with saying to yourself:


“ At least I have tried!”