Has it ever happened to you to love someone on the spot as soon as you met her? For me it certainly happened. Make no mistakes! It was not the typical kind of thunderstorm or like people say that they got struck by lightning. For me it was more simple than that but yet, the complex love was there.
I met Lucile during a time that I was feeling tired and then It happened that I took a break from school and I went out of the busy lively town for a weekend with my friend Jonathan.
I don’t know whether this only happened to me but grand parents seems to care a lot about their grand children every time. I have a lot of childhood memories but the ones that seem to stick in my head are the ones at grandma’s house. It is like magic to me. Its like as soon as you reach their house you get a feeling of peace and safety.
The next Monday, as a student who is disgusted by school i was going to that place very happy. The reason why was that i would go and see her during lunch time. I passed through her whole block to find her class and finally i got there. She was sitting near the window, looking outside, eating a bread and her bag on her knees. I was like hello!!
As soon as she saw me, she blushed, put her bread in her bag lol! And then say hi back. All these were done in a haste. From there i knew she was shy to eat in front of me and secondly she was really into me. To be honest with you guys it was the cutest act any girl has ever done in my presence. We were together almost everyday and we enjoyed our time together. She even came to watch me play soccer during a class tournament that we lost. I played badly that day. The reason is that i think i was overwhelmed by her presence.
Yeah!! I was at the point where i was saying that the only way for us to talk was through face to face communication. As from that time, her friends were my friends too. Bit she was not someone who had a lot of friend. She was kind of quiet compared to her best friend Angela who was not shy at all. As we often say opposites does attract each other.
I can recall the first gift i gave to her. It was an album of French love songs. She seemed to be quite happy about it as well. But during that time i did not really knew how she was feeling about it because she wasn’t that expressive. Anyway, i gave her the gift with my heart. We were quite happy i would say. Even after school sometimes i would wait for her because she had extracurricular lessons and i would spend some time with her.
I’ve always been fascinated when i look at a pregnant woman and i still am. The thing is that they look so beautiful and natural when they are pregnant. It is like mother nature that has been personified.
When i look at a pregnant woman, the first thing that come to my mind is:
“this is amazing!!”
The reason is that there is life growing within the womb of the woman. The few kicks that the baby is giving to her and her body is changing for a purpose. The body is changing in order to be able to feed the baby and give him the best nutrition possible. Another good thing is that they do not need to care about their weight much. They can afford to eat a lot. All these combines gives a beautiful result that we can see with our own eyes.
It is always nice to have someone in your life. But when it comes to love, you have a choice between accepting that person completely with all her qualities and flaws or accept the person by ignoring these flaws. When we think about love, we always have this kind of perfect picture in our head which is like live happily forever. But one thing that I have noticed is that it is not always the case.
I do believe that when it comes to love, you need to have compassion and care for each other. You need to know when to let go and accept some things that maybe goes against your ways. But be careful here! I am not saying that you must always be like that. But sometimes you need to get loose. For instance, maybe you do not like watching series but if your partner asks you to do so with her I think that the best decision would be at least to try it once. You never know! It is highly possible that you will have the moment of your life by doing so. But to be honest here, when I think about love on a personal point of view it goes to another level.
When i was younger i had a quote that i would always use with my friends while talking about girls and woman. The quote was a deep one and we would all burst out laughing after i am done saying my stuff. It is not a wise quote though and now this is the way for me to unquote that quote. The quote that follows can be really offensive and please forgive me for these words. I was young and now i am no more the man i used to be.
“ the woman who will change me is not born yet and her mom is dead already”
Well! Last night a woman asked me to write her a story. When i asked her about what should i write, her response was exactly as follow:
“I don't know.. Surprise me.! like a little child hearing a story for the first time.. Haha!”
Here is the thing! i am going to try to do something for you.
It was a Sunday evening and there was nothing much to do at home. So, i decided to call my friend mike and ask for a meet up. At that particular moment we were unaware that that same particular Sunday evening would be an unforgettable and fun evening for us. Eventually Mike as usual is open for anything good. I still remember that the following Monday would be the first day of school after a very long holidays To be more precise here, it was the last day of the end of year holidays. Mike reached some safely and right on time. It was around 8:30pm! Of course mike would never come to my place empty handed. Mike in fact reached home with two bottles of wine.
Today I was talking to my psychologist. We were texting each other and I came to ask her about what is it likes to have a kid? What is it like to be a parent? And she asked me!
“ Are you going to be a parent soon?”
Of course I am not going to be a father soon! So, I told her no! I just ask her this question out of curiosity.
Well! The answer she gave me was quite neutral to me and I perfectly understood her. She told me that it depends on people. Some people may see it as a job that is hard to do and some people may see it as a blessing. A blessing! In the sense that a child will bring a lot of happiness in their house!
Yesterday night I was having a conversation with a wedding photographer. We were talking about how does she look at her job and so many stuffs that revolves around wedding. It is always nice to get to know from which perspective a wedding photographer looks at weddings.
From there, we get to a part of the conversation that went really deep. She was telling me that she does this job for a really long time now and while doing her photo shoots she know which couple will last long or which one is getting married for status and money issues and which one are getting married out of loneliness.
This conversation was really deep according to me. According to h
well well well! today i want to thank you all for reading my daily posts. i know that sometimes it can take a lot of your time but the most important thing is that you enjoy and learn something from it. hmm! i hope so! well so far i have reached more than 10, 000 views and i am so glad about it. i would not be able to make it without you.
my biggest wish right now is that we grow up together and exchange our thoughts to one another which will build a bond between us. but i can already feel that we are already starting to have a great bond with all your comments and reaction. seriously i would never thought that you would even think of reading my stories. however, as usual life turns out to be pretty much surprising. as we always say:
Love! What is love to you? What is love to me? I have absolutely no clue. The way that ı see things now is that we are being train to be good dates. Yeah! you may tell me that it is always good to have someone to compliment you. It is always good to know each other. It is always good to receive flowers. Yes ı am sure that you will have a good time with that particular person. There is no doubt about that! But to what extent are all these things being done in a genuine way? When you look at the divorce rate nowadays, the percentage is absolutely astonishing. Well! Nobody wants to be a divorced man or woman at the first place. Unfortunately, the divorce rate continue to increase. The amount of lone parent family is just huge.
Hello everyone! I hope that you all had a great day or are having a great day. Today I want to spread some love to you all! If you have had a bad, then just remind yourself that tomorrow is another day and that you will get other it. By next week, all your sufferings will be history. For those who are expecting a great day ahead, then good luck with that one. Just stay positive no matter what happen.
Sometimes, there are emotions that you cannot control. A lot of times, people say that distance kills the love that we have for someone. However, there are exceptions. However, distance can be in our favour.
It takes time and distance to realise that you love someone. With distance, you get to know who really loves you. I met a beautiful girl few years ago. Despite that we are from the same small hometown, we never got to meet each other there. But life has surprising ways of giving you nice people thag that you can rely on in your life. So many times I asked god to allow me to find love. But destiny has decided that the contrary should happen. Love found me!
Love is really amazing people! Love is a special bond that unites two people together. when we talk about love, we think about relationships and couples. It comes through different aspects and forms though. Today I want to share the different couples that I can see around me.
Over and over again! Thinking about someone for who you care and who cares for you! It is amazing and sad at the same time. The reason is because when you think about this person you are happy and thinking about having a future with her or him. But you feel sad because the particular person is not here with you.Thinking about all the time that we are wasting while not being with the one.
Everything that I have written so far, everything that I have acheive so far, everything that I have been doing is only because your smile has been guiding me. It may seem to be madness but that's the reality. There may be a bridge between us and the sky but we will get through it. I know that one day I will get back to you. It can take two thousand years or two years but we will get over it
In this world there are certain treasures that we need to cherish and once we get these treasures we should never let them go. One of these treasures is love. Love is something that can really drive us crazy as well as willing to give everything. Sometimes we misunderstand the concept whereas sometimes we get it right as well. Sometimes we argue and sometimes we have a very good time. All of it forms part of the whole concept including the term that we refer as relationship.
The swedish girl. Well what can I say more about her apart from the fact that she was unbelievably awesome. I met her during in a kind of weird situation and the story ended up in a weird way as well. I was in Rodrigues Island and I was about sixteen years old during that time. I was walking along the white sandy beach with the sun stronger than ever and the sound of the waves crashing onto the shore. I was quietly waking, there was nobody around except me and I had no idea where I was going until I noticed a silhouette coming from far from the opposite direction. I will not hide that I was intrigued and I was willing to know who could that be.
Everything always happen at the right time. Sometimes just by looking at each other we conclusively say that this particular fellow is like this or is like that. We directly draw our own conclusion without knowing what is going on behind the scene.
There are certain things that we do with good intentions that always end up hurting some people. i do not know why is it so but that is just the way it is. People tend to get sensitive with our actions very often. There are things that we say or write and then people just relate to that automatically and say that we are talking about them or we really lived that very moment. But very often, the reality is that we are just expressing ourselves in one way or the other.
Let's move together at every step!